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The Indian woman and the social evils associated

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  In this blog , i would like to address the social evils that persists in modern Indian society in women's case . Starting right from the birth , a term "son meta preference" exits which itself shows son is preferred more as compared to daughter in this senseless society . Family continues to reproduce until a son is born showing how daughter is not wanted and welcomed in this society . Technology has made it more easier as you can detect early in the womb if it is a female child or male child so can it can be infanticide if it's a female child. Although laws exits as this is a criminal offences but things continue on the other side of veil showing a society which prefers a male child over a female child . When a female child is born , she is gradually made a women ( it's a social construct) , she is often provided with soft toys and given nailpolish , makeup materials, which enhances her beauty , outside visits will be done in controlled manner ( Article 19 viol...

Marriage

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  You feel absurd when I will say that marriage is not that okay as you think of it! You will feel it's fine but it's not , take this : no creatures on earth other than human being do marriages neither they stick to one lifetime partner. Of course their can be exceptions but mostly don't. Probably humans only believe to marry and have one partner whole life. But why marriages are done? One of the answer is to find a companion to share emotions , you may argue that as humans possess deep motions other than any creature of earth , for instance love , so to have a stable emotional life we may need partner. But then same question arises why only one , we may need multiple and it shouldn't be considered immoral to have 100 wives . But it is considered. Let us understand some thinkers perspective on this , a thinker says human is a selfish creature, it wants it's possessions like property to be with him or to his offspring . So he has created a institution called marriage...

Gandhian Philosophy - Satyagraha and Non-violence

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Starting with the non-violence , it is tough to understand for a normal person that how come freedom can be achieved through non-violence . Let me be clear Freedom could be achieved through other means as well like a complete violent revolution , but had we achieved it through other means it would not have been sustainable. Freedom through non-violence is sustainable and prolonged . Satyagraha , Non-cooperation and civil disobedience was major movements which held non-violence as the main weapon.  First , non-cooperation , let's understand it through a thought example , imagine you are in you classroom you have many friends who interact with you daily . Everything is going fine and one day they all start to ignore you , no one is ready to sit with you and teacher leaves the classroom when you enters , imagine the whole school is behaving like this . Add this , you go home and your parents behave the same . No one wants to interact with you . How would you feel ? Yes , you will feel...

Gandhian Philosophy - From Charkha to Freedom

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Emotional being v/s Bodily being - A guide to be "Good human"

 Emotional development or " emotional intelligence"  is the term used popularly , it is how you sharp or add wellness to your emotional being . It is unquestionably one of important stage to become a good human being. First , let's understand the problem why an human being becomes a bad or insensible human being. The problem starts when all our beings are not developed equally and especially bodily being is developed too much.  Bodily desires are infinite . They cannot be gratified completely ever , for example: a boy wants a cycle, a cycle guy wants a motorcycle , a motorcycle men wants a car , car guy wants expensive cars , and then private jets and so on . If you still feel that this is not correct just think yourself ! Was there any moment in your life when you felt like you got everything and you stopped there? Or ask any person . Certainly, No! You always wanted to buy new clothes even if the old ones were enough for you . In summation, bodily desires can never be f...

Human Beings

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 To understand the who is or what is a human being we should understand the meaning of "being" first. It means "the essence of something or someone" . For example ; the essence of a knife is to cut , the essence of a door lock is to be strong enough so not to break easily .  Similarly, we should figure out first the essence of human to understand human being. Let me jot down some: Firstly, Human being is a bodily being , it seeks body pleasure. Body pleasure can come from various sources such as eating a pizza , buying clothes , drinking alcohol/soft drinks or having intimacy with you partner. Then , Human being is also a emotional being , we find jokes funny and laugh ( the happy emotions ) , and we hate some people in our lives due to different reasons ( the hate emotions) and we cry when someone leaves us permanently i.e death ( the sad emotions). Adding to this we also possess emotions like: love , affection , anger , disgust and many more. But is this all? No !...