Marriage

 

You feel absurd when I will say that marriage is not that okay as you think of it! You will feel it's fine but it's not , take this : no creatures on earth other than human being do marriages neither they stick to one lifetime partner. Of course their can be exceptions but mostly don't. Probably humans only believe to marry and have one partner whole life.

But why marriages are done? One of the answer is to find a companion to share emotions , you may argue that as humans possess deep motions other than any creature of earth , for instance love , so to have a stable emotional life we may need partner. But then same question arises why only one , we may need multiple and it shouldn't be considered immoral to have 100 wives . But it is considered.

Let us understand some thinkers perspective on this , a thinker says human is a selfish creature, it wants it's possessions like property to be with him or to his offspring . So he has created a institution called marriage so that after him his possessions can be inherited by his own someone and he feels gratified .

He goes further saying this all idea exits because the private property exits , now imagine a world where there is no private ownership on properties . Everything belongs to the "state" . Everyone do tenancy and get a share . In such state the idea of marriage will also fade slowly as their is no one who to inherit your belongings. In such world relations will be made purely out of love and compassion, not out of social contract like marriages today . Communities will built and that's how philosophy of communism came.

You may wonder when children will be born who will look after them! I will say the community! Don't forget this community shared pure love with everyone and discriminates none . The child will be treated as of everyone's not of single individual . It's tough to conceive this idea but elephant and lions do the same.

Humans are just creating institutions or I should say problems which doesn't even exist and calling them moral just to satisfy their self interest and later crying out for it. One more such problem is wars ammunitions . Had no country developed weapon , no one would have needed to defend . When there are weapons to attack there should be to defend and this whole arms industry exists.